This is not a question you want to have to ask your spouse or lover. The web site ashleymadison.com is for married people who want to cheat on their spouses. The site motto is, “Life is short. Have an affair.”

A year ago, an Internet article appeared entitled, “Writer Goes Undercover on Ashleymadison.com.” It described a report by a woman who posed as a “swinger” who was bored with her marriage and wanted, at least, a change of companionship. She met several married men that way.

The married men using the site, and it is predominantly used by men, were usually looking for married women with whom to have a “relationship” of one kind or another, sometimes just notes and talk, sometimes more.  If you run across this name, on a note, on a list of sites visited by your home computer, become alert. Your spouse may just be curious, or this may be serious.

When Gold Shield Elite Investigations, LLC, is contacted by individuals who suspect spousal cheating, we review with them the signs of cheating that we have listed elsewhere on this site.  We recommend that they check their home phone records for telephone numbers that are unfamiliar. Some of that can be done easily. Not all.

Our Private Investigator license and our professional contacts give us access to sources of information not available to the general public. If employed to do so, for example, we use “reverse directories” to find the owners of telephone numbers, even “unlisted” numbers.. If a relatively inexpensive investigation reveals information that warrants one of several modes of surveillance, we can perform such as well, if asked..

Our activities for our clients are handled in strictest confidence.

If what we find out is reassuring, you will fell relieved. If it is alarming, you are better off knowing sooner rather than later.  Ignorance is not bliss. Knowledge is power.

Let’s hope this is the last time you hear of “Ashley Madison.”


Don’t be nearly sure. Have us investigate. Be certain.

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